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} catch(err) {}</description><title>Meet me backstage.</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @themaykazine)</generator><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>CREEPIEST HOUSEGUEST EVER.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1fb19c7cdaaec7508f74792379f99ef2/tumblr_mn0t919KAs1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;CREEPIEST HOUSEGUEST EVER.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50772957914</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50772957914</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 17:55:49 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>This is the shade of things to come. #bay2breakers</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1a1ac8ab045faa19d4c1c03077b47528/tumblr_mn0myeN9Ju1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the shade of things to come. #bay2breakers&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50764008296</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50764008296</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 15:39:50 -0700</pubDate><category>bay2breakers</category></item><item><title>An Excerpt from the "Drive" Screenplay</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://jzakubrick.tumblr.com/post/50589428002/an-excerpt-from-the-drive-screenplay" target="_blank"&gt;jzakubrick&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;(If this is real) This is incredible.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50683496312</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50683496312</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 16:02:07 -0700</pubDate><category>drive</category><category>screenplays</category><category>scripts</category><category>hossein amini</category></item><item><title>I don’t have time for tiny yappy dogs threatening to mark...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8c6463b8c09c86b7053660169791239e/tumblr_mmylomop5D1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don’t have time for tiny yappy dogs threatening to mark my sneakers as territory. #bigdogs (at StackMob)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50671905100</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50671905100</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 13:17:10 -0700</pubDate><category>bigdogs</category></item><item><title>"Multiple sources reported that Google Glass will come with pre-loaded apps called “Glassware.”..."</title><description>“Multiple sources reported that Google Glass will come with pre-loaded apps called “Glassware.” Facebook will be one of the apps, along with The New York Times, Path, Twitter, Elle magazine, Evernote, Tumblr, and CNN.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;What’s the point of pre-loading Google Glass with an &lt;em&gt;Elle&lt;/em&gt; app when Google is testing with barely any women?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://allfacebook.com/coming-soon-facebook-for-google-glass_b117655" target="_blank"&gt;UPDATED: Introducing Facebook For Google Glass - AllFacebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Further Reading: &lt;a href="http://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/2013/05/10/google-glass-io-men-women/2133861/" title="Where the Ladies at?" target="_blank"&gt;Where the ladies at?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50597732202</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50597732202</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 13:32:00 -0700</pubDate><category>google glass</category><category>glassware</category><category>elle</category></item><item><title>(via 10 International Style Stars to Watch Out for at Cannes |...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/87bffb19a0041ade9e84ce1d42a93677/tumblr_mmv419LmT91qz9xlko1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://fashionista.com/2013/05/10-international-style-stars-to-watch-out-for-at-cannes/3/" target="_blank"&gt;10 International Style Stars to Watch Out for at Cannes | Fashionista&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50531171694</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50531171694</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 16:04:07 -0700</pubDate><category>zhang ziyi</category><category>dior</category></item><item><title>"When asked what the return on investment of social media is, Scott told Business Insider, “What’s..."</title><description>“When asked what the return on investment of social media is, Scott told Business Insider, “What’s the ROI of wearing pants?” I don’t know, Scott, but if I’m a company spending hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars on marketing, I want to know what I’m getting, pants or no pants.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;A somewhat incendiary post, but as Mendelson gets into the science of manufacturing virality, the piece gets better.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://pandodaily.com/2013/05/13/social-media-may-finally-be-dying-but-the-bs-around-it-hasnt/" target="_blank"&gt;Social media may finally be dying, but the BS around it hasn’t | PandoDaily&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50508898473</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50508898473</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 11:23:53 -0700</pubDate><category>brandon mendelson</category><category>social media</category><category>real-time marketing</category><category>virality</category><category>psy</category><category>gary vaynerchuk</category></item><item><title>"Yelp shit, Reddits shit. Every shit."</title><description>““Yelp shit, Reddits shit. Every shit.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanhatesthis/this-is-the-most-epic-brand-meltdown-on-facebook-ever" target="_blank"&gt;This Is The Most Epic Brand Meltdown On Facebook Ever&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50442027318</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50442027318</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 13:45:09 -0700</pubDate><category>kitchen nightmares</category><category>Amy’s Baking Company Bakery Boutique &amp; Bistro</category><category>gordon ramsey</category><category>scottsdale</category><category>arizona</category><category>social media</category><category>fail</category></item><item><title>Until there’s a twelve-pound tome on the costuming in The...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2094d24d1fd348410035619ba4d5724b/tumblr_mmp85zIo7F1qz9xlko1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Until there’s a twelve-pound tome on the costuming in The Great Gatsby, I will settle for this.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://fashionista.com/2013/05/get-up-close-and-personal-with-pradas-great-gatsby-costumes-on-view-now/high-res-catherine-martin-and-miuccia-prada-dress-gatsby-opening-cocktail-6/" target="_blank"&gt;[HIGH RES] CATHERINE MARTIN and MIUCCIA PRADA Dress Gatsby Opening Cocktail | Fashionista&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50277097845</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50277097845</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 11:46:47 -0700</pubDate><category>the great gatsby</category><category>catherine martin</category><category>miuccia prada</category><category>prada</category><category>costumes</category><category>1920s</category></item><item><title>"She’s too sympathetic, Tom’s too evil, and Gatsby is too blameless."</title><description>“She’s too sympathetic, Tom’s too evil, and Gatsby is too blameless.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.hollywood.com/news/movies/55013084/great-gatsby-book-vs-movie" target="_blank"&gt;4 Fatal Differences Between ‘The Great Gatsby’ Book and The Movie | Movie News | Hollywood.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;…Not that we expected anything more from a film adaptation – and Baz Luhrmann’s adaptation, at that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50273025516</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50273025516</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 10:53:03 -0700</pubDate><category>kelsea stahler</category><category>the great gatsby</category></item><item><title>
    I just unlocked the The Great Gatsby Opening Weekend...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/32f2cd0f5af91a1579c3bec933ea6f26/tumblr_mmo6npZ8Mw1qz9xlko1_400.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;
    &lt;a onmouseover="this.style.background='none';this.style.border='none'" style="border: 0; text-decoration: none; font-size: 20px; font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;" href="http://getglue.com/stickers/warner_bros/the_great_gatsby_opening_weekend?s=tus&amp;ref=mayka" target="_blank"&gt;I just unlocked the The Great Gatsby Opening Weekend sticker on GetGlue&lt;/a&gt;
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    This movie certainly excited you, which is why you rushed to the theater to see The Great Gatsby during opening weekend.  Share this one proudly. It’s from our friends at Warner Bros.
&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50228544068</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50228544068</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2013 22:16:37 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Uma and @flimflammery making friends! #tibetanmastiffs</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2da0ea494082c3f8881317dcca4498bb/tumblr_mmn82k6rww1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Uma and @flimflammery making friends! #tibetanmastiffs&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50176506834</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50176506834</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2013 09:49:32 -0700</pubDate><category>tibetanmastiffs</category></item><item><title>satanic2chainz:

wake up america 
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/43801c20a2caefc7fd4d4b80779a4aa7/tumblr_mlzol4vyOP1qdxlfoo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://satanic2chainz.tumblr.com/post/49135041704/wake-up-america" target="_blank"&gt;satanic2chainz&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;wake up america &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50114071082</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50114071082</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 14:35:53 -0700</pubDate><category>rappers</category></item><item><title>yourmothershouldknow:

Bottega Veneta Resort 2014

Again with...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d0e4d23ae11c1aabb46feb1e5c6103d7/tumblr_mmljmvyFSN1qzmo1lo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://yourmothershouldknow.tumblr.com/post/50103860614/bottega-veneta-resort-2014" target="_blank"&gt;yourmothershouldknow&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bottega Veneta Resort 2014&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Again&lt;/em&gt; with the amazing fringe work, BV!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50104915045</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/50104915045</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 12:21:44 -0700</pubDate><category>bottega veneta</category><category>fringe</category><category>fashion</category><category>style</category><category>dresses</category></item><item><title>annfriedman:

In my ongoing quest for the perfect framework for...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/42cdb3448639d389f63342b471c4300e/tumblr_mlzuxbQyKw1qjzfl0o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://annfriedman.com/post/49152967734/in-my-ongoing-quest-for-the-perfect-framework-for" target="_blank"&gt;annfriedman&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;In my ongoing quest for the perfect framework for &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://nymag.com/thecut/2013/01/haters-gonna-hate-whats-a-woman-to-do.html" target="_blank"&gt;understanding haters&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;span&gt;I created &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Disapproval Matrix**&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;. (With a deep bow to its &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://nymag.com/nymag/culture/approvalmatrix/archive/" target="_blank"&gt;inspiration&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;.) This is one way to separate haterade from productive feedback. Here’s how the quadrants break down:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Critics:&lt;/strong&gt; These are smart people who know something about your field. They are taking a hard look at your work and are not loving it. You’ll probably want to listen to what they have to say, and make some adjustments to your work based on their thoughtful comments.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lovers:&lt;/strong&gt; These people are invested in you and are also giving you negative but rational feedback because &lt;em&gt;they want you to improve&lt;/em&gt;. Listen to them, too. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Frenemies:&lt;/strong&gt; Ooooh, this quadrant is tricky. These people really know how to hurt you, because they know you personally or know your work pretty well. But at the end of the day, their criticism is not actually about your work—it’s about you personally. And they aren’t actually interested in a productive conversation that will result in you becoming better at what you do. They just wanna undermine you. Dishonorable mention goes to The Hater Within, aka the irrational voice inside you that says you suck, which usually falls into this quadrant. Tell all of these fools to sit down and shut up.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Haters:&lt;/strong&gt; This is your garden-variety, often anonymous troll who wants to tear down everything about you for no rational reason. Folks in this quadrant are easy to write off because they’re counterproductive and &lt;a href="http://annfriedman.com/post/47141088264/1-million" target="_blank"&gt;you don’t even know them&lt;/a&gt;. Ignore! Engaging won’t make you any better at what you do. And then rest easy, because having haters is proof your work is finding a wide audience and is sparking conversation. &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7z_ztMxBgk" target="_blank"&gt;Own it&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The general rule of thumb? When you receive negative feedback that falls into one of the top two quadrants—from experts or people who care about you who are engaging with and rationally critiquing your &lt;em&gt;work—&lt;/em&gt;you should probably take their comments to heart. When you receive negative feedback that falls into the bottom two quadrants, you should just let it roll off your back and just keep doin’ you. If you need to amp yourself up about it, may I suggest &lt;a href="http://open.spotify.com/user/djhashtag/playlist/3zDnzvmQkgGCOvUFhzwe1t" target="_blank"&gt;this #BYEHATER playlist&lt;/a&gt; on Spotify? You’re welcome.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;** I presented The Disapproval Matrix to the fine folks at &lt;a href="http://moxie.quitestrong.com/" target="_blank"&gt;MoxieCon&lt;/a&gt; in Chicago yesterday, and they seemed to find it useful, so I figured I’d share with the class. It was originally inspired by a question my friend &lt;a href="http://channingkennedy.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Channing Kennedy&lt;/a&gt; submitted to &lt;a href="http://www.cjr.org/realtalk/bye_haters.php" target="_blank"&gt;my #Realtalk column&lt;/a&gt; at the Columbia Journalism Review.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49794987746</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49794987746</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 13:17:53 -0700</pubDate><category>ann friedman</category><category>criticism</category><category>love</category></item><item><title>Worth a ponder.
(via Is this what respect feels like? - The Meta...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1256bfd174c639ae4646a7516d7865f0/tumblr_mmd09h8cO51qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Worth a ponder.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://themetapicture.com/is-this-what-respect-feels-like/" target="_blank"&gt;Is this what respect feels like? - The Meta Picture&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49751797275</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49751797275</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2013 21:24:52 -0700</pubDate><category>cosplay</category><category>comic-con</category><category>comic conventions</category><category>fanime</category><category>women</category></item><item><title>I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: Vintage-Inspired...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a646dc4ff06bfadc58092634381054db/tumblr_mmar22ixJl1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: Vintage-Inspired Cocktail Ring. (&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/18FCjOV" target="_blank"&gt;http://bit.ly/18FCjOV&lt;/a&gt;) #poshmark #fashion #shopping #shopmycloset&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49631262211</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49631262211</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 16:10:50 -0700</pubDate><category>poshmark</category><category>fashion</category><category>shopping</category><category>shopmycloset</category></item><item><title>I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: 2.5” Neon...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/13fb9205df747c5621d4463be3d52d9d/tumblr_mmaqy49rtz1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: 2.5” Neon Hoops. (&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/10amq3N" target="_blank"&gt;http://bit.ly/10amq3N&lt;/a&gt;) #poshmark #fashion #shopping #shopmycloset&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49631101440</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49631101440</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 16:08:27 -0700</pubDate><category>poshmark</category><category>fashion</category><category>shopping</category><category>shopmycloset</category></item><item><title>I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: Raspberry 3/4-Sleeve...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6ab019d06cffeec5f0406369197839d9/tumblr_mmal6z0yrB1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: Raspberry 3/4-Sleeve Sweater. (&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/10anMWB" target="_blank"&gt;http://bit.ly/10anMWB&lt;/a&gt;) #poshmark #fashion #shopping #shopmycloset&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49622224087</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49622224087</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 14:04:11 -0700</pubDate><category>poshmark</category><category>fashion</category><category>shopping</category><category>shopmycloset</category></item><item><title>I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: Flattering...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/eef1650b61300c78fa1ae5a4d23a2830/tumblr_mmal10aWbi1qz9xlko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I just added this to my closet on Poshmark: Flattering Criss-Cross Tank. (&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/15h62ll" target="_blank"&gt;http://bit.ly/15h62ll&lt;/a&gt;) #poshmark #fashion #shopping #shopmycloset&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49621957898</link><guid>http://themaykazine.tumblr.com/post/49621957898</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 14:00:36 -0700</pubDate><category>poshmark</category><category>fashion</category><category>shopping</category><category>shopmycloset</category></item></channel></rss>
