It is time, once again, to fret over the flaccid state of modern manhood. Today, a New York Times piece considers whether “female empowerment” is “killing romance” and, naturally, answers in the affirmative. You know this narrative well: Women have excelled in academia and the professional sphere, leaving men in their dust. But, while all these high-achieving women thought they were earning their own freedom, they have actually been building their own prisons — because “men don’t want successful women.”
Well, is it true? Granted, it’s hard to take the piece by Katrin Bennhold seriously, seeing as it begins with a nod to a scene in a long-dead TV show (“Sex and the City,” maybe you’ve heard of it?), follows up with a Bridget Jones reference and actually asks outright whether “ambitious women [are] condemned to singledom.” Still, it also relies on the widely accepted wisdom that women are attracted to power and success, while men are attracted to youth and beauty. In so many ways, the piece’s hypothesis seems an easy sell. However, when I asked men to weigh in on the article, which is notably lacking male voices, the response was decidedly skeptical.
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This discussion comes up on every slow news day. I’m not interested in the man who is uninterested in a powerful and successful woman, so this does not concern me.
This is the “oh poor me” of the feminist age.